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PART 4: belief 4

rapid results are the best results

THE TRUTH-

Before I discuss this belief, let me first preface it by saying that I completely understand the desire to see results quickly. As human beings, we are wired for instant gratification — we want to look and feel good NOW, so I do get that desire.

In fact, I understand it so well that I have, in the past, chosen reckless and unhealthy weight loss methods specifically because they promised rapid results. I was fed up with feeling bad and desperately wanted to escape that feeling as quickly as possible. But those choices only ever made things harder in the long run.

Rapid weight loss methods have also been proven to cause the following issues:

* Increased stress and anxiety: Sticking to strict diets and intense exercise regimens can be difficult and lead to stress and anxiety.

* Increased risk of eating disorders: Rapid weight loss can trigger unhealthy behaviours and obsessive focus on appearance, potentially leading to disorders like anorexia or bulimia.

* Mood swings: Severe calorie restriction can disrupt mood regulation and even alter brain function, leading to irritability and emotional instability.

* Obsessive thoughts: An unhealthy obsession with weight loss can lead to constant thoughts about food, body image, and weight, negatively impacting mental well-being.

* Nutrient deficiencies: Rapid weight loss often involves drastic calorie reduction, leading to deficiencies in essential vitamins and minerals.

* Muscle loss: Rapid weight loss can cause the body to burn muscle tissue for energy, slowing metabolism and making weight maintenance more challenging.

* Metabolic slowdown: Significant calorie reduction may cause your metabolism to slow down, making it harder to lose weight and more likely to regain it.

* Gallstones: Rapid fat breakdown during weight loss can increase bile cholesterol, leading to the formation of gallstones. This is especially common with GLP-1 medications.

Not only that, but rapid results also prevent and contradict the process of rewiring your thoughts, changing your beliefs, redeveloping habits, and building self-esteem because all of these things take time.

And the reality is: you didn’t gain weight in a few months, so you’re not going to lose it in a few months either.

Any solution that promises fast results will only ever be short-lived. The underlying issues that led to the weight gain remain unresolved, so the behaviours and habits stemming from those issues will always resurface eventually.

One of the most sobering discoveries I made during my years of studying and researching weight management was this: people are often reluctant to invest time in changing their body, mind, and life — unless it promises rapid results. However, the truth is that time will pass regardless.

The next year of your life will roll out. You can spend it making genuine changes that feel good, bring peace, and lead to lifelong freedom — or continue doing the same things you’ve always done, chasing fast results that won’t last. And a year from now, you’ll be in the same position — full of regret for not making the changes you truly needed.

As someone who stayed stuck in that cycle for years, I can honestly say that I don’t regret how long it took to change my life — I only regret not starting sooner.

When it comes to losing weight and making real, lasting changes, slow and steady wins the race. You are not only retraining your mind, reconditioning your habits, and reinforcing positive behaviour — you are also healing your body from the trauma of years of crash dieting and bingeing, and that takes time.


Time that your body needs to recover and restore a healthy metabolism, and time that your mind needs time to adjust to new patterns until they feel natural. And you must do all of this while living a normal, often demanding, life.

So, while everyone wants speedy results, the truth is that the more time you take with this process, the greater the results of long-term success will be.